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Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Final Project
For my final project, I'm going to compare and contrast Thailand and Laos. The things I'm going to compare and contrast are their culture, educations systems, types of food, religion, and beliefs. I’m interested in this final project because both my parents came from these two places. I think I’ll learn a lot about these two cultures by doing this final project.
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Interview # 2 Review Results
WINNER: Qian Wang
Score card: Results for Interview 2 Review
Score card: Results for Interview 2 Review
I picked Qian Wang as the winner for the interview 2. Looking at her interview process, she put a lot of thought and time into her work. Her information was written well.
The preparation documented that Qian did was good. She wrote when, where, and how she prepared for the interview. The preparation was detailed of how she met her interviewee. It was good to see that she started off with small talk before the interview with Mike. I think that’s always helpful when starting an interview.
Her personal considerations regarding the interview process was good. She wrote a lot about what she and the interviewee talked about. It was mainly about him. I learned so much by just reading the information about him, such as, he celebrate Christian festivals like Christmas and Easter. It’s great to read how much people respect their elder and families. Culture’s so important.
I thought the country report was well written. I liked how Qian uses her own words and she gave the writers credits. She had her references, work sited, which I found it useful when reading her report. She had interesting facts, such as, the total population of Burundi is over ninety million. Another fact I found interesting was that Burundi is one of the poorest nations in the world.
Qian’s interview process was great. It was easy to follow and read. The letter q stand for her and the letter m was her interviewee. Her questions she asked the interviewee, Mike, was fun and exciting. The best part was seeing what her interviewee would say. It was great to see how he compares his country and the United States. It was fun reading the part when the interviewee was comparing the restaurants between his country and the United States as well. She did a wonderful job transcribing the interview.
I thought the interview presented on the blog was good. It was easy to read and find. I liked how it was well organized. The appearance was nice. The colors weren’t too dark or too light. The font was in good size. The blog was very clear and I didn’t find much errors. She did a great job on her interview blog.
Interview # 3 Review Results
WINNER: Laci L Brune
Score Card : Results for Interview 3 Review
Score Card : Results for Interview 3 Review
I picked Laci L Brune as the winner for the third interview. Reading her information, I learned a lot about the German exchange students. When I read the things she wrote, it made me very interested and wanting to read more.
The preparations documented in her blog were good. They were clear and when I read it, it made me understand and I could vision the steps she took to her interview. She answered every question that was asked. She also put a lot of thoughts into her writing. It seemed like she was very prepared before her interview.
For the interview process, she did a great job. I liked how there was the two different colors, brown and black; so I could see easier what she and her interview had said. She asked very good open questions that it makes the interviewee talks a lot instead of the interviewee answering yes and no. It seems like he expressed a lot of anger that was in him when Laci asked if there is anything that he’ll like to add. I was shocked when I saw what he had said to her. It’s good that Laci didn’t talk back or said anything because it’s all about the interviewee and not the interviewer.
While reading Laci’s country report, I learned even more about the country. She had interesting facts. She had references, so I could go on the website to see where she got her information from. She also did a good job on quoting and paraphrasing her country report. One interesting fact I learned from reading her country report was, when people reach age 16, they can drink beer and wine. Also, when they reach 18, they can drink any alcoholic beverage they want.
When I read the interview, it was good. It was easy to read. I didn’t have a difficult time trying to figure out what she was saying. Her questions were interesting as well. When I read the interviewee’s answers, it seems like it’s very similar to the American culture, for examples, the wedding traditions and rules of eye contact or body languages.
Overall, I think Laci’s interview presented on the blog was great. Her writing was easy to read. It was clear. The colors that she chose in her background, font, and size of the letters are good. I didn’t see any errors. I felt like her blog was up to date and well organized.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Interview # 3
Interview #3
Describe the preparations.
My preparations for this interview were good. I used the same questions for my interviewee. I went to the library to get a recorder and reserved a room for the interview. I double checked to see if the recorder works well. After I finished with all of this, I went and prepared myself by practicing the interview questions again. I also practiced with some of my friends before this interview.
How did you approach people?
After I met my second interview with Lia; she introduced me to Micky and some of his friends. I told her that I wanted to interview a man instead of a woman. I already interviewed two gals, so I wanted a guys perspective and view of things. After I told her, she told me that Micky is a nice guy and will give me a good interview. She gave me his phone number and I called him and told him about my English class. He had agreed to meet with me. It was on a Tuesday night when I met my interviewee.
When, where, and how did you conduct and record the interview?
I conducted the interview in Miller Center on a weekday when he and I were free. I rented the study room in second floor couple days before I had to do my interview. I made sure the place was quiet, so the recorder can record us well. He came early for the interview.
Whom did you interview?
I interview Micky Deges. He’s an active member in St. Cloud State University. He joins a lot of club and is the leader for the OPPA club. He has family members that he misses a lot back in Ethiopia. He will be graduating next year. His major is computer science.
2. Describe the interview. What did surprise you?
This interview was very nice. I enjoyed it a lot. Micky was such a wonderful person. He knows many things about his culture. I learned what kinds of food he likes eating and learning about all the clubs he’s in. He’s so educated and loves learning about science. He likes to joke a lot, which made me very comfortable to be around him. He smiled a lot. I didn’t think he was going to tell me as much information from the beginning, but he was honest and shared a lot of important information with me.
3. Report on country/region and culture.
“Ethiopia is the tenth largest country in Africa, with approximately 61 million people, covering 439,580 square miles” (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010). There are over eighty ethnic groups in Ethiopia. However, the Amhara, Tigreans, and Oromo have the largest population. They consist over 75 percent of the population. The Sidamo, Somali, Welamo, Beja, Awi, Gurage, and Afar are the smaller ethnic groups in Ethiopia (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010).
“Ethiopia has been a country with religious freedom for centuries” (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010). Therefore, there are many religions that the Ethiopian practices. The most dominant religion in Ethiopia is the Orthodox Christianity. Other major religions are the Judaism, Islam, and Polytheistic religion. The Orthodox Christianity and Islam religion have about 85 to 90 percent of the population (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010).
There is a huge gap between the status of men and women in Ethiopia. The men are consider to be the head of the household. They are free to socialize with anyone outside of the home. However, women are restricted and are responsible for the household (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010). It is not the norm for men to practice cooking and child rearing because they may become a social outcast by other men (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010).
References:
Countries and Their Cultures, Initials. (2010). Ethiopia. Retrieved from http://www.everyculture.com/Cr-Ga/Ethiopia.html
4. Transcript:
4. Transcript:
Micky’s Interview
Me: Can you tell me a little bit about yourself and your home?
Micky: My name is Micky Deges. I’m from Ethiopia. I came here two years ago and I’m a international student. My parents live in Ethiopia. My sister and brother both live in Seattle, they go to school there. My older brother lives in Ethiopia and he’s a pilot. I’m involved in most of the activities in the school here.
Me: Oh, like the clubs?
Micky: Yes.
Me: What are some religious or cultural customs in your country?
Micky: Well, my parent, they are like most Ethiopian, they’re Orthodox Christian. Religion is our core. We share the same values, it’s similar with Indian. We have to live with our parents until you get marry. You have to support your family and your family will support you. Religion plays a big role. Sunday means you have to go to church. Our belief is that there is one God. Everybody has to celebrate.
Me: Thank you. Do you have different rules of eye contact and body language in your country?
Micky: Yeah, body language. I don’t know. Especially when you talk with elders, you can’t look them in the eyes. When they are sitting, we have to sit on the floor or that is considered disrespectful. When I came here, I could never look at people in the eye. I thought, what was wrong with the guy when he was looking at me. We kiss people on the cheeks to greet them. It doesn’t mean anything. When two guys walk on the street, we hold each other’s hand, it doesn’t mean anything. It shows brotherhood. Body language is different.
Me: Oh okay, we kind of talked about this, but how are elders treated?
Micky: Even when you don’t know a elder person and you’re going to a restaurant, you have to let them go first, open the door for them. It shows that you respect them. It’s believed that if you treat elders well, you’ll live longer. They will bless you.
Me: Thank you. That’s interesting. What are weddings like, for example, the traditions of weddings?
Micky: Weddings are… Ethiopia, when we celebrate, it’s three day. Well, longer than three days. First, when you propose, you propose to the family first. The night before the wedding, you have to go with two bags of clothes, perfume, and things to show you can take care of their daughter. The wedding day, he has to respectful, ask the family to take her. We don’t do church. We have lunch or dinner later. About two hundred or three hundred people are invited. The third day, his parent are going to pay for the wedding if her parents pay for the wedding first. When she’s going to the honeymoon, she’s supposed to be a virgin, so, on their honeymoon; they will show proof that she’s a virgin. They will bring some kind of cloth that’s soak in blood. If she’s not a virgin, they will bring a red flower to the parent’s house to show how much he respects her. Looking at that, if the parents are proud, they will give gift to the husband like money or something.
Me: Oh wow, how interesting.
Micky: Yes (laughing)
Me: In your country, what are the traditions of funerals?
Micky: In my country, funeral last 40 days. If a person dies tonight, he/she has to be buried by 3 p.m. I remember when my grandpa died, my dad shaved his hair and you have to wear black. Not only he, but my mom and everybody have to wear black. You have to show how sad you are, for about 3 days. When someone comes, you have to show them how sad you are. After the funeral, we can’t watch T.V. or listen to music. Your neighbors can’t do the same because it’s a sign of respect.
Me: Okay. What kinds of sports are played in your country?
Micky: Well, it’s Africa! So, we play soccer.
Me: Yes.
Micky: And volleyball. It’s funny, we have a sport like hockey. It’s only played in the winter. It’s only for elders. We have games for kids too.
Me: How does your culture celebrate New Year? If so, can you explain what the tradition is like?
Micky: Our New Year, I don’t know if you know. But, our New Year is September 11. I know it sounds weird. Ethiopian system is different. Everything in Ethiopia, school will start after that. My mom will make this food for us that will clear everything. You’ll have new clothes. We will have to clean the house, every corner of the house. We’ll have new shoes. The foods are sour and it’ll clear your body. The girls will dress white clothes and go around neighbor and sing music. The kids will draw angels and give it to neighbors, stuff like that.
Me: Oh, that’s so sweet.
Micky: Yes.
Me: How is the education in your home country compared to the United States?
Micky: Education in my home country compare to the United States, it’s different. Our high school starts from grade 9. It’s tough, it’s tougher than college. So you have to work so hard. For example, we take all general classes that we are taking in college. We have to take a lot of testes. When you’re done, the government will send you to wherever, it depends on your grades. They will send you to college. University is free back home.
Me: Oh, okay.
Micky: The government will pay you and send you money monthly for pocket money, stuff like that.
Me: okay.
Micky: If you graduate in your country, you’ll have to serve the country for 2 or 3 years for really cheap salary because you were taught for free.
Me: Wow, that’s interesting.
Micky: Yes.
Me: Okay, are there any differences in how a man and a woman may contact each other? Anything that is not considered proper?
Micky: Not really. There’s not much different. Most of the time, when you greet women, you kiss her cheeks, yeah. It’s just what I told you earlier.
Me: Does it matter whom you date or marry? If so, why?
Micky: (laughing) Does it matter whom I date? No. Does it matter whom I marry? Yes, it does. Like I told you, I’m here. I could marry anybody I want. Your parents will want and expect you to marry someone that’s in your culture. They prefer you to marry someone that’s your ethnic group. Dating, we don’t tell our parents. You do that with your friends.
Me: Okay.
Micky: Yes.
Me: What do you have for your diet, for example, breakfast, lunch, dinner?
Micky: Today? Or
Me: Daily
Micky: Yeah, I usually have stew. Breakfast, I usually drink milk, something simple. I will usually have culture food.
Me: Okay, do you have any questions for me.
Micky: umm.. no.
Me: Thank you very much for your time.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Interview #2
Describe the preparations.
My preparations for this interview was good as well. I did similar things from the first interview for preparing this interview. I also had the same questions for my interviewee. I went to the library and rented the recorder that I was using for my first interview to do my second interview. I rented a room ahead of time in the library, so I could do my interview. It was in the third floor.
How did you approach people?
I approached people by going to the multi-culture place. I met Lia Dege by my first interviewee, Fasika. Fasika was the person that introduced me to Lia Dege. After the short introduction between Lia and I, I asked Lia nicely if she would like to help me with the interview and she was so nice and said, yes.
When, where, and how did you conduct and record the interview?
I conducted the interview in Miller Center on a weekday when she and I were free. I rented the study room in third floor three days before I had to do my interview. I made sure the place was quiet, so the recorder can record us well. She came in couple minutes late because she was still at work, but she called me ahead of time to tell me.
Whom did you interview?
I interview Lia Dege. She is a Social Work major and is graduating next year in the fall of 2011. She’s 24 years old. She wants to travel the world and experience how the world is like. She misses her mom and brothers in Adiss Abeba, Ethiopia. She wants a big wedding and loves going to weddings. Also, she has many relatives all over the United States.
2. Describe the interview. What did surprise you?
The interview went a lot better this time. I was very relaxed compare to the first interview. Lia was a very nice and a educated woman. She knew a lot about her culture and is very specific. I was very comfortable with her because I got to introduced myself to her before we started recording. We talked for a while about school and her family before I even interview her. There were many things that surprised me about Lia and her culture. She's really outspoken. Her New Year starts on September 11.
3. Report on country/region and culture.
4. Transcribe the interview.
“Ethiopia is the tenth largest country in Africa, with approximately 61 million people, covering 439,580 square miles” (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010). There are over eighty ethnic groups in Ethiopia. However, the Amhara, Tigreans, and Oromo have the largest population. They consist over 75 percent of the population. The Sidamo, Somali, Welamo, Beja, Awi, Gurage, and Afar are the smaller ethnic groups in Ethiopia (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010).
“Ethiopia has been a country with religious freedom for centuries” (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010). Therefore, there are many religions that the Ethiopian practices. The most dominant religion in Ethiopia is the Orthodox Christianity. Other major religions are the Judaism, Islam, and Polytheistic religion. The Orthodox Christianity and Islam religion have about 85 to 90 percent of the population (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010).
There is a huge gap between the status of men and women in Ethiopia. The men are consider to be the head of the household. They are free to socialize with anyone outside of the home. However, women are restricted and are responsible for the household (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010). It is not the norm for men to practice cooking and child rearing because they may become a social outcast by other men (Countries and Their Cultures, 2010).
References:
Countries and Their Cultures, Initials. (2010). Ethiopia. Retrieved from http://www.everyculture.com/Cr-Ga/Ethiopia.html
Me: Hi, my name is Pa Kou Lee. I’m in an English 191 class and I will like to know about your culture, so are you willing to answer the questions, if yes, can you please introduce yourself.
Lia: Sure. My name is Lia Dege. I am willing to help you.
Me: Okay, can you tell me a little bit about yourself and your home?
Lia: Okay, I’m from Ethiopia and it’s in East Africa and my home town is Ethiopia, Adiss Abeba. I’m from a city girl.
Me: Okay, what are some religious or culture customs in your country?
Lia: Umm. In my country, religion is Greek Orthodox. More than half people are Orthodox Christian, but there are different religion like Protestant, Catholic, and Muslim, so Orthodox is the first or the top religion in our country. Our culture is very different than anywhere, we have around 82 different tribes and 82 different languages. The 82 different regions practice their own culture, so even though we are from Ethiopia, we all have different languages in the culture.
Me: So, are you saying that the 82 different languages have different beliefs?
Lia: Well, we don’t have different beliefs, we have similar beliefs, but those beliefs are from different culture. I mean the way we celebrate holiday is different even though the holiday is the same. Let’s say if we have Christmas Day and back Africa is December 29, in our culture calendar. Ethiopia calendar, we have different calendar, so on that day central Africa celebrate it different way than like West, North, everywhere. So, everyone celebrate it different in different culture.
Me: Oh, I get it.
Lia: Traditionally, on that day, we have to wear our traditional clothes. Like this culture have different dress on. Our culture is different, but we celebrate one religion.
Me: Okay, I get it now.
Lia: Alright.
Me: Do you have different rules of eye contact and body language in your country?
Lia: Definitely, we do. I mean, in our culture, we are not allowed to have eye contact to our parents, especially, anyone or anywhere. I mean if we say something seeing eye contact with one person, even our teacher, parents, or older siblings, it’s not allowed.
Me: Okay
Lia: Seeing someone that’s older like seeing and saying something is rude, so we don’t have eye contact or even we don’t have body language in anywhere whether we are happy. Sometime you happy and you show how excited you are, but you have to limit it.
Me: Oh
Lia: For example, like in America, I mean like to say something, you have to see a person eye to eye like to show them that you are innocent or you’re doing this, you’re doing this. In our culture, it’s very difficult, seeing someone like staring some is like make that person uncomfortable and it make you are rude like tearing somebody. Here you can show any kind of body language. There you can’t. Bad eye contact and bad body language is restricted.
Me: Oh, okay, especially with elders?
Lia: Yes
Me: Okay, how are elders treated?
Lia: Very well, in my country, we treat elders very good. I mean, we respect them and their words are God’s word. Whenever they say do this, whether we like it or not, we have to do it.
Me: Okay.
Lia: We do things for them, we help them. Ummm.. lets say, for example, if I see a older woman carrying something, I mean I am responsibility to carry her stuff or help her. If we go by bus and we sit and she’s standing, I have to leave my seat for her. So, elders in our culture is very, very, very respected.
Me: Okay, I see.
Lia: And for example, here, I mean, most American put their parents in nursing home. In our culture, first of all, we don’t have nursing home because we don’t believe in putting elderly in nursing home. We believe do things for our parents. They are, they took responsibility raising us and when it’s cold, they do anything, but when they get older, it’s our responsibility helping them or until they die, so I don’t know, we respect elderly very much, a lot. Even though I live here now, trust me, I’m not going to put my parents in nursing home.
Me: Yeah, okay.
Lia: Yes.
Me: What are weddings like, like traditions of weddings?
Lia: Different, I mean, wedding is very different. Wedding in Ethiopia is very big event. Like… umm… I could tell you the process if you want to?
Me: Yeah.
Lia: Well, like long time back in the 50 or 60 years ago, it was only arrange marriage. Two parents decide to give her home. For example, if it was me, somebody just come and send someone to ask for me. My dad can’t say no unless there is something between those two people. Unless those people come to ask me, my dad and my uncle has to find out the background of the person, who asking me to marry me. They have to ask, what kind of tribe, what kind of religion, what do they have or different kind of thing. After my parents say, okay, the ceremony will start.
Me: Okay.
Lia: But now, things has change. I mean the country had develop, so we have a chance and right to have our own boyfriend. Now, if I have a boyfriend and I want to marry him, and when we’re both ready. He has to send somebody to my dad. They have to ask him to marry me. Then, you know my mom, dad, sister, brother, and my uncles will talk about it. Why and how is that person interested to me and how long are we seeing each other and we loving each other and do we have, like are we loving and supporting each other. So, based on that, my parents will decide if my boyfriend will marry me or not. After they say okay, my parents and his parents will throw different party.
Me: Oh.
Lia: Like the wedding starts three days before the wedding. And, like I say, every culture is different. For example, if my wedding is this Saturday. On Thursday, me and my boyfriend should go to the city hall to sign the marriage paper. We will have a big engagement party. I’m not going to go with him, I’m going to go back to my parent’s home and there are going to be ceremony. They will sing different songs during the wedding process. Some songs are about my dad is lucky, he got to give me away. My godmother, she going to give me gift that she is happy she is with me. She’s happy she get to see me. That day, they’re going to be a big pack. They are going to give alcohol. The next day, on Friday, my husband should send me something, like, by his groom.
Me: Oh.
Lia: That day, he’s going to send different kind of jewelry, clothing’s, da, da, da, like different things, that shows that he can take care of me.
Me: Okay.
Lia: Then on the actual wedding day, I’m not going anywhere. He’s going to pick me up from my parent’s house. So, on that day, I’ll be very dress. I mean before, we use to wear our traditional clothes, but know things are change. I could wear a traditional white gown.
Me: Okay.
Lia: Then, when my husband come, my part of the family are going to block the door, saying you’re not going to take our daughter, that kind of thing. His groom man, his friends, try to push and break the God and take me.
Me: Oh.
Lia: It’s really funny, so on that day, they have to come with a red rose.
Me: Oh, really?
Lia: Yes, so he has to block me with a vale, so he should get on his knee, give me the flower and kiss me hear, right on the forehead.
Me: Oh.
Lia: (laughing) Then, he’ll take me. Then elders should say something, wishing us luck. Then, they will give us whisky. When the time to go, we have to kiss my parents knee.
Me: The knee?
Lia: Yes.
Me: Does it matter what knee? Both knees?
Lia: No, they just sit like putting their knee together, so kissing their knee shows that we respect them and thank them. So, after he take me, we are going to church, promise that I’ll be with him, I’ll take him for better or for worse. Then we go picnic after that. Then we are going to come have lunch at my parent’s house.
Me: Okay.
Lia: When we come, it’s just going to be me, him, and his grooms. His parents don’t have to show.
Me: Oh, okay.
Lia: After lunch, we are going to drink different cocktail. Then, we are going to the reception, then his part of the family, like I’m going to go with my bridesmaid. My mom will bake traditional bread. In the American, they don’t have the bread. I’ll show you the picture if you want to? I’m pretty sure you guys don’t have it. They will cut the bread in a circle to put things in it. Then my husband’s dad will have to cut the bread and they will give me a different name.
Me: Oh, so you’re going to have a different name?
Lia: Let’s say I’m Lia, I’m not going to change my name. Like his parents are going to give me a different name, it shows that they will accept me, they love me like, you are our gold, you are our daughter, things like that. So the bread will distribute, like his best men will open it. To get the bread, you have to know my new name.
Me: Okay.
Lia: The name his parents give me. Giving me a new name just show that his parents accepted me, to get the bread you have to know my new name. The next morning, his dad is going to put some money in the bread, either one hundred dollars or a thousand, anything.
Me: Yes.
Lia: So, his best men’s and my bridesmaids will have to send the bread to my parent’s house. That day people are going to sing songs and it shows that I’m accepted. The bread is very big, so whoever wants to peak have to give something to us, like a car, or something as a gift.
Me: Okay.
Lia: So, after they do that, my mom will make a big pot luck thing of food.
Me: Oh.
Lia: And, my gift and everything, they are going to bring to my husband’s house or my new house. Then, the next day, my dad will send a letter to invite people, like 200 or 400 people. My bridesmaid and groomsman will bring the pot luck, the pot luck is our lunch for later, for his parents. We have to wear our traditional clothes. The colors are black, gold, or silver. We will have dinner. After two days, everybody will come, his parents will come. That day, it’ll show the family that we’ll become one. That’s a big part of the wedding. We celebrate it for 5 days, it’s kind of too much, but I love it the way it is. I know it’s too much, but like that’s not just my responsibility, it’s my uncles, my dad, aunts to throw me a big wedding party. We believe that wedding is just once in our life and we get to experience a big wedding. Luckily, my dad is going to throw me a big wedding.
Me: Okay. Thank you! In your country, what are the traditions for funerals?
Lia: Well, as wedding, funeral is big too. I mean if somebody dies, everyone has responsibility to come and go and greet that person. For example, when I was a little girl, 15 or 16 years ago, my grandma died by my dad’s side.
Me: Okay.
Lia: I loved her, so I remember how it is.
Me: Okay.
Lia: When she died, we were there, and she was put in a casket thing. Everybody cry, really, really cry. Then they have to take her to church. They sing about heaven and take her to heaven. In our country, we take them to church, not a funeral thing. Everybody will crying, people will hit their chess, people shave their head, and boys grow their beard. People wear black clothes for the whole year. We don’t allow people to watch T.V. or listen to any kinds of music. You know, we become like so depress because we are so attach to somebody, even though it’s not our family member, around our neighborhood. Africa is very attach, even though if that person is rich or poor, we are attach with one each other, like we all feel bad for that person. So, we think we don’t have to be happy when somebody die when we bury it. So, it’s really hard, so like I said, people wear dark clothes and shave their hair, well, I don’t. When the ceremony, they say, please God, give them a good life and take care of that person.
Me: Okay.
Lia: So they are going to through a party thing to feed homeless or people that cannot assist them self. So, after 80 days, the priest will give us a name.
Me: Okay. What kind of sports are played in your country?
Lia: Really, soccer.
Me: Oh, okay.
Lia: It’s big.
Me: Okay, how does your culture celebrate New Year? If so, can you explain what the tradition is like? Do you have a New Year?
Lia: Yes, we do! We celebrate it different way. Like New Year is like big, so we put on a fire and say it’s a new year and burn the bad away. We clean our house and sometime buy new things for the New Year. We say good things are coming for this coming year.
Me: Okay, how is the education in your home country compared to the United States?
Lia: It’s different.
Me: Very different?
Lia: Very different, like we have similar things like first grade to twelve and college, but the way is so different.
Me: Okay, any difference in how a man and a woman may contact each other? Anything that is not considered, proper?
Lia: Like, well, men is always on top.
Me: Always.
Lia: Yes, they are the dominant. So, but you know, we see it as bad or is a bad thing. I mean, yes, there are different kinds of personality. The men can use his dominancy to hurt somebody, but it’s not for everybody. Yes, men is on top, yes men is dominant. Yes, he has the right to say or do what he wants. In our culture, 95% of income comes from the men like mostly women is housewife, so the men has to work and bring the money.
Me: Okay.
Lia: So, I don’t see. I don’t know. When I grew up, I grew up in a big family. Yes, they both work, but you know, I didn’t see any differences. But I don’t know, maybe there is different. Yes, men is dominant and is the top, but I don’t know, I don’t see anything.
Me: Okay, does it matter whom you date or marry?
Lia: Yes.
Me: If so, why?
Lia: Well, as a new generation, if we make it, we don’t care kind of thing.
Me: Okay.
Lia: But, it still matter to marry someone in different religion. I am Orthodox Christian. If my boyfriend is Muslim, I don’t allow to marry him.
Me: No matter what?
Lia: No matter what I love him or he is perfect match for me, no.
Me: Oh okay.
Lia: But earlier, yes it does matter. But the generation change, people don’t care how much money other people have or where he works. If he’s a business man, how much money does he have. What is his capacity for income. This time. they don’t care, but religion, yes. They will say, you will have a baby and very soon. Who do you be with, Muslim or Christian? So, religion.
Me: Okay.
Lia: The old religion, everything does matter.
Me: Okay, what do you have for your diet, like breakfast, lunch, dinner?
Lia: Well, we don’t really eat American traditional food. We all have our traditional food. As for breakfast is different, different lunch, different dinner.
Me: Oh, okay.
Lia: Like if I eat. Well, it’s kind of tortilla, it’s not tortilla. Like we make it to small piece, toast it or smash it for paprika. Sometime we eat bread with jelly for breakfast. Sometime we made different thing. For lunch and dinner, we make injera. So we eat it with meat. Dinner, we make it with veggie.
Me: Oh, okay.
Lia: But we eat mostly injera.
Me: Sounds good.
Lia: But we don’t eat injera for breakfast.
Me: Not for breakfast.
Lia: No.
Me: Okay, do you have any questions for me?
Lia: No
Me: Okay, Thank you for your time Lia. Thank you.
Lia: No problem.
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